Ethan Frome, Edith Wharton (1911)

This was a very depressing novel. Let’s just get that out of the way. Like another of Wharton’s New England novels Summer, which I read last year, she once again creates a character whose life has promise and potential, but bad choices made early on coupled with poverty and duty to family ruin any chance of freedom. Ethan Frome’s draining, joy-sucking life permeated every page.

Wharton creates a bit of mystery surrounding Ethan Frome in the opening pages. The unnamed narrator who arrives in town on business notes his somber countenance, “something bleak and unapproachable in his face, and he was so stiffened and grizzled that I took him for an old man,” yet he was only 52. The coach driver explained he has looked that way since ‘the smash-up.’ And with that, the strange, sad tale of Ethan Frome begins.

Frome is many years into a loveless marriage. He and his wife, Zeena, live in the Frome family home eking out a slim existence from soil that doesn’t yield much. He asked Zeena to marry him out of gratitude for helping him nurse his sick mother. Right after they marry her real or imagined ill health makes her unable to take care of the home, so she enlists the help of her young cousin, Mattie Silver, although it is soon clear she has no household skills.

Mattie’s youth and joy for life is Ethan’s one bright light and he begins to care for her deeply. When Zeena announces that her new doctor wants her to get a proper hired girl, because “I oughtn’t to have to do a single thing around the house,” Ethan is devastated. Mattie will have to leave because they can’t afford to pay for two girls, although she has no family to take her in. Ethan spends days frantically looking for a way to run off with Mattie, until he realizes its futility. The day he takes Mattie to the train station he stops to take her sledding. Both are distraught over their impending separation admitting they cannot live apart and make a pact to end their pain by sledding into a tree. They are severely injured, but both live. Ethan is left with a limp and a scarred forehead, but Mattie sustains a spinal injury that leaves her permanently disabled.

The action skips to the present when the narrator, who has only heard bits and pieces of this story is invited by Ethan to stay the night during a snow storm. When the front door is opened he hears more than one voice coming from the kitchen. He is shocked to walk in on both Zeena and Mattie sitting around the kitchen table.

When he goes back to his boarding house, run by a childhood friend of Ethan’s she explains that yes, after the accident, Zeena took Mattie back and nursed her as best she could and without any family to return to the three have lived together for 24 years. She tells him, “If she’d ha’ died, Ethan might ha’ lived; and the way they are now, I don’t see’s there’s much difference between the Fromes up at the farm and the Fromes down in the graveyard; ‘cept that down there they’re all quiet, and the women have got to hold their tongues.”

Though the story is terribly tragic I admire Wharton’s writing. She is not sentimental or overly emotional, but matter of fact. The event happens or the choice sets in motion tragic consequences, the character accepts his or her fate and makes new choices and with them we move on. As in real life we have to get on with whatever hand we are dealt and this is how Wharton writes.

Except that I found it hard to just let go of Ethan’s fate. Is it too much to ask to give him a little happiness after having to leave college to come back home to care for his father, then his mother, then his wife and finally both his wife and unrequited lover? Couldn’t Wharton give him a little better financial situation or let his wife die young or…something?

However, like Charity, the main character in Summer, who similarly had to pit personal fulfillment against duty, what the reader finds here is reality. Both Ethan and Charity made foolish choices the first time they fell in love, which left them with life-altering consequences they could never break away from. And maybe that is the moral or the cautionary tale here; what you do when young comes back to haunt you. The whole trajectory of your life can change in an instant, so make good choices!


Try telling that to any young person in love!

My edition and plot summary.
Edith Wharton. Ethan Frome and Selected Stories. New York: Barnes and Noble Classics, 2004. Originally published in 1911.

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14 thoughts on “Ethan Frome, Edith Wharton (1911)

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    1. Hiiiii!!

      I am starting to adore her, too. I have not read her longer works, but hope to. I bought a biography of her recently and want to know about her.

      Been thinking about you and hope your Spring is fruitful 🙂

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      1. Jillian

        Thank you. 🙂 I hope you’re well too. I have been following you here, just quietly. I’m (casually) back to blogging. I recommend The House of Mirth. x


  4. Superb review.

    I have only read Wharton’s House of Mirth and The Age of Innocence. Those were also depressing books. Wharton seems to dwell on the dark sides of life and does not giver her characters a lot happiness. This still sounds very good.

    I like your take on the negativity that Wharton expresses, It is hard to accept but sometimes it is a lot like reality.

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    1. I have yet to read her longer works, but I hope to this year. So they are depressing, too? Hmm.

      But I do like her writing style, even though I was arguing with her throughout regarding the circumstances she puts her characters in! I wonder if I should read more of her biography? Maybe there are clues there….


      1. This was an incredibly depressing book. As I said in my review earlier this year, I am so glad I was not made to read it in school because it would have put me off of Wharton forever. As an adult reader I can have a little more distance and not be simply overwhelmed by all the darkness, but it takes some effort.

        There are also gloomy elements in many of her other books but perhaps because they are longer they are not quite so one-sided…I would say to give them a try.


        1. Ha! There is a lot of angst in school as it is…

          I have a feeling some of this is a reflection of her personal relationships, which I am only just beginning to learn about. And thanks, I will try her longer works

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  5. I did not like Ethan Frome when I first read it, but it is so short a couple of years later I read it again, and a couple of years after that I read it again, and now I kind of like it


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